TO THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVE ANSWERED, I THANK YOU AND I DO UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS. I had an assumption about its meaning that you guys clarified. Thanks. BTW, some of the questions were geared based on my assumption.
If you can please answer the following questions either here in or in my e-mail, it would be so greatly appreciated. What I need help in is finding the value of a "lover" of a person who is a polyamourist (has more than one "lover"at a time). Even if you are not polyamourous, I would still like your input. As you may have guessed, I don't understand what a "lover" is nor do I understand the significance of insignificant others when no love is involved..
What interests you in the women you have sex with?
Is the interest just sex or does it bear more merit?
If it bears more merit, what might that merit be?
What makes you interested in a "lover?"
How long does each supposed "lover" relationship last?
Do you love each "lover?" To what degree is the love?
Does each "lover" love you? To what degree is the love?
What makes one "lover" different from the next?
What causes termination of the supposed "lover" relationship?
What is the significance of "lover" or an insignificant other?
For the sake of definition, a "lover" is a sexual OR romantic relationship. Which does it most often fall under and why?
Other than sexual gratification, does having "lovers" leave you emotionally empty and unloved or does it leave you loved and fulfilled?
Is a "lover" a transient position?
Would you KNOW if you loved someone after 5 months?
YOUR COOPERATION IS GREATLY APPRECIATED. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE A FRIEND NOR A MALE TO ANSWER. THANK YOU. ~ Arachne ~ November 24, 2008 @ 10:21 p.m. EST
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